It is no secret that bachelor parties have almost been met with suspicion and distrust. Thanks to a steady stream of movies from the film industry that shows us how crazy a pre wedding party can get, it is obvious that many people view a bachelor’s party as a party where they are free to do anything they desire. A bachelor’s party was first started during the Spartan era back in the 5th century where the soldiers would have a feast the night before their comrade got married. It was this tradition that was brought forward through the years.
By the 1950’s it was named as a gentleman’s dinner and was usually thrown by the groom’s father and included a huge feast just as the Spartan soldiers. The purpose of these dinners was to increase the bonding between the men and to celebrate the fact that the groom is moving on from the single life to being married. As the tradition was brought forth, the part “dinner” was removed from the name and the word “party” was instead added. This gave rise to gambling, making use of a topless waitress of Black Label Hunnies , huge amounts of alcohol and even the inclusion of strippers. Nowadays though, many people are moving away from such parties mainly due to pressure from the families and the bride to be.
Going back in time to do something like a dinner will help you and your friend bond together and do activities that you’ll might not be able to do after he gets married.The first step would be to decide on an event to follow up on. Just because you are not going to the strip club, it does not mean the entire event should be bland. You can consider renting jet skis for a morning or evening or go snow skiing to a resort up in the mountains. A night at the casino would make a great idea or you should think about attending a boxing match. A general tip to follow is to avoid doing anything dangerous. Harming your groom to be just before his wedding can ruin everything. While you might want to surprise your friend, make sure your intended plans are according to his interests because after all this event is for him not yourself. When making the budget, think of the income of your friends. It would be a bad move if certain people opt out because they cannot afford it. Putting the event a night before the wedding is a bad idea as the groom to be needs to be sharp for his wedding not half asleep and hangover.